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How to take care of your man?

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They say, “WOMEN are POWERFUL”.. Do you agree? Well at some point, maybe.

But why just MAYBE?

Some women act like ANGELS and become WITCHES at the end of the day, because of some reasons that I just stated on my blog about “HOW TO TAKE CARE OF YOUR WOMAN”.

But how about MEN? Some women do not know how to take care of their men as well, hence they find love from other women.

Regardless of the age, WOMEN must make their MEN feel loved.

Let’s talk about some WAYS on how to take care of a man. Or no, should I say, WAYS to make him stay..? :p

  1. Promises are made to be broken: Same with women, if you think you can not keep your promise, then just don’t. It’s as easy as 1,2,3. Women do have a superficial happiness and so do men. Both are humans, they both feel the same. Men are just seen to be stronger than women that’s why most women think they are more sensitive than men.
  2. Let them talk: Listen to your woman and let your man talk as well. A man’s ego must be built not crushed.
  3. USAE: Understand, Support, Acknowledge, Encourage. Understand what he thinks is right, Support his plans, Acknowledge his skills and Encourage him to be a better person. Never stop expressing your love with these 4 words. That’s all they needed.
  4. Ask him out: Not because you are the girl/woman in the relationship you will always wait for your man to date you. You can always ask him out for dinner, treat him for a movie or do your reports at a coffee shop together. Once in a while is not bad.
  5. Appreciate him forever: He will court you forever, then appreciate what he does for you and show him that every little thing that he has been doing counts. Big or small show him that you are grateful for having him.
  6. Do not be a nagger: I get it. A woman usually gets mad and tries to be patient as much as she can. But they get mad because her man makes her do it. However, if a man does it and a woman gets mad and annoys him more, then they clash.  REMEMBER, A man’s mistake + the woman’s madness = separation. You can always forgive a person. NOW, if you think you’ve given him chances already and you think it is already too much, then teach him a lesson. That’s the time you teach a person a lesson. But prevention is better than cure. So it’s just give and take. It won’t happen if you know how to take care of your man, and your woman won’t turn into a witch if you know how to treat her right.
  7. Notes: Not because in most cultures, women receive flowers and gifts most of the time mean it is not proper to do the same to your man. Nope. You can always send him gifts, flowers or even leaving a small note telling him how handsome he is every day before leaving for work. Not the notes that tell him to pay the bills all the time. :p
  8. Ask: Give yourself the right to ask your man about his day at work, about his friend, about his workmate, about his boss, or just random things. They need that.
  9. Surprises: I have met many women and only 5% of 100 women surprise their husband or partner. Not because he is a man, he doesn’t deserve surprises. Hey! You are both humans and you both feel the same when it comes to surprises. Maybe, some women think that their partner won’t like it or appreciate it. QUESTION: Have you tried it? Most men are not showy. They won’t show that they like it but they do.
  10. Love him: Follow the 9 ways on how to take care of your man, that explains number 10.

 

You see, we live based on the culture that we know and follow. But what if, just what if, we do the other way around, would it matter?

Not because he is a man he doesn’t deserve to be treated the way they treat their women. We give – we take. And vice versa. They also get hurt, they also cry, they also feel bad, they also experience pain. They are as well, FRAGILE.

So going back to the question, why just MAYBE? Because there are men who are also powerful, and they deserve to be treated like a king, just like how they treat their women as QUEENS. 🙂

 

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Random Thoughts

How to take care of your woman?

©2016 TheAnonymousWritersNotebook

     They say, “WOMEN are POWERFUL”.. Do you agree? Well at some point, maybe.

     There are MEN who definitely won’t agree to this.. :p There are many reasons why they won’t agree, considering the status of a man in a woman’s life. It depends on the situation.

     Why do WOMEN act like ANGELS and become WITCHES at the end of the day?

     Because SOME MEN do not know how to take care of their WOMEN.

     Regardless of the age, WOMEN should be treated right.

     Let’s talk about some WAYS on how to take care of a woman. Or no, should I say, WAYS to make her remain like an ANGEL..? :p

  1. Promises are made to be broken: Then do not make a promise that you cannot keep. AS SIMPLE AS THAT. Women do have a very superficial happiness. Apparently, they don’t show that and instead give you a tiger look when you promise to come home by 11 and she sees you early in the morning. Like at 5 in the morning.
  2. Listen: Listen to her and never oppose to what she’s telling you NOT UNLESS you really think it is not right. YES, You have the right to state your own opinion, just be ready for your own world war III, or just remain quiet.
  3. VATA: Value, Appreciate, Treasure and Admire her. Never stop expressing your love doing these 4 words.
  4. Date her: Dating a woman doesn’t stop from the day you guys got married. Not because she gave birth to 4 kids and she gained a lot of weight mean you will stop dating her and will try to date someone else. NOPE! NOPE! NOPE! Remember, you loved her because you LOVE her, no reasons in loving. Otherwise, you will have to consider that as an affection. Watching a movie once in a while would do.
  5. Court her forever: When I say court her forever doesn’t mean you will have to give her expensive gifts all the time nor sending her flowers at work. Well for sure you have already spent too much money on that when you were still in your first few months. Why not invite her for coffee, write simple notes, remind her how beautiful she is especially in the morning. We believe that women are more beautiful in the morning (even without makeup).
  6. Be honest: I know that it is difficult to be VERY honest when you are in a relationship or when you are committed, but I think this is one of the rules in life. I’m sorry I can never change that. :p
  7. Random Messages: Good morning beautiful! How’s your day sexy? Have you eaten your dinner love? Believe me, 95% of women would definitely feel a romantic excitement if she sees a message like that. Come on! A single message can already make her feel happy.
  8. You do not have to ask: If you think she’d like that chocolate, just buy it. No need to ask. If you think she’d like the dress, just buy it. No need to ask. If you think she won’t like it. Just buy it! She’ll appreciate it regardless of the item.
  9. Random surprises: Surprise! I came home early from work. How’s that? Surprise I got you a cup your favorite ice cream! Surprise I bought you a new pair of nude shoes. Surprise I am here at the parking lot of your office! Anything you planned to do to make her feel happy that she doesn’t know would definitely surprise her.
  10. LOVE her: Follow the 9 ways on how to take care of your woman, that explains number 10.

You see, when you love a person you do not have to spend too much money to show her that you love her. Just spend TIME with her. And I bet she will be an angel forever.. :p Kidding. She will give you everything that you need and want in life.

     So, going back to the question. They say, “WOMEN are POWERFUL”.. Do you agree?

    WATCH OUT FOR the WAYS ON TO MAKE YOUR MAN HAPPY. Soon!

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Daily Post Challenge

Gray 

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He was sitting next to her and everything was fine. Until she became cold.

She changed in a snap. I don’t think she is still in love.

And everything suddenly became GRAY.

He figured, she fell out of love.

https://dailypost.wordpress.com/prompts/gray/

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Daily Post Challenge

Measure 

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Can you MEASURE love?

“How much do you love me?” – Strong question. 7 out of 10 cannot answer this.

Because if you give an answer to this question, it only means you do not really love a person. Loving someone doesn’t need an answer. Loving someone doesn’t need measurement. You love someone because you love someone. That’s it!

If you say, you love someone because of her almond eyes, if she gets blind will you still love her? You love someone because of her sexy body, if she gets fat will you still love her? You love someone because she’s rich, if she gets poor, will you still love her? Beauty fades away. Personality stays.

Never love someone because of something. Love someone, because you felt it. Nothing more,  nothing less. Regardless of the age, the physical appearance and the family background. You love him because you love him. You love her because you love her.

3 out of 10 people that you will meet will TEACH you, will LOVE you and will LEARN from you. The rest will only USE you, HURT you and FOOL you. Be smart enough to know. So can you MEASURE love? Nope. Regardless if he’s just a friend, she’s a girlfriend, your best friend or your sibling. You can never measure LOVE.

https://dailypost.wordpress.com/prompts/measure/

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Daily Post Challenge

Heal 

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Heal

Love heals. You may not be ready yet, you may not accept that it happened yet, you may not be able to forgive yet, but you will learn soon.

LOVE will always be the key to forgiveness, the answer to the question, the solution to the problem and the reason for breathing.

Let LOVE heal. Let LOVE teach you how to FORGIVE.

https://dailypost.wordpress.com/prompts/heal/

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Purple 

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And then he said, “I may not be the right person to give you RED roses, I may not be able to give you beautiful PINK pair of shoes, I may not be able to take you to the most expensive restaurant to try GREEN leafy vegetables, but I will do everything to be the best person so you won’t be BLUE”.

-The Purple Grass-

 

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https://dailypost.wordpress.com/prompts/purple/

Daily Post Challenge

Friends.. Meaningless

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“I love him”… The last words I heard from her.

While she kept on telling me that she loves him, hearing all our friends shouting and making her understand that she’s not supposed to be loving that kind of person and that she has to leave him. I stood up in the crowd and spoke gently. “Yes, we love our friend and we care for her. Yes, it is our responsibility to make her understand that this guy is stupid and that she needs to break up with him. Yes, we should and must look after each other once in a while. We are her friends, yes. But we also have to consider that we are just her friends. We can never decide for her. Everything that we say, enters the left ear, passes through the mind and leaves on the right ear. If her heart is telling her to stay, her mind can never instruct or command her body to do otherwise, only because the heart is more powerful than her mind. We can never tell someone to leave the person who gives her pain especially if that person is the same person who gives her happiness. All we can do is listen and support.” And then I looked at her, “You got 10 people, 9 telling you to leave and 1 person, as I may stand to that, who will not ask you to leave him, but instead I’m telling you to SAVE SOMETHING FOR YOURSELF, DEAR. You are beautiful in and out. You have given him your 99%, save at least 1 for yourself. By the time, you get to understand that your life is more MEANINGFUL, and you get to love yourself more, that’s the time you’d get the point of having a MEANINGLESS commitment with someone you do not deserve. Let your heart decide.

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