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How to take care of your man?

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They say, “WOMEN are POWERFUL”.. Do you agree? Well at some point, maybe.

But why just MAYBE?

Some women act like ANGELS and become WITCHES at the end of the day, because of some reasons that I just stated on my blog about “HOW TO TAKE CARE OF YOUR WOMAN”.

But how about MEN? Some women do not know how to take care of their men as well, hence they find love from other women.

Regardless of the age, WOMEN must make their MEN feel loved.

Let’s talk about some WAYS on how to take care of a man. Or no, should I say, WAYS to make him stay..? :p

  1. Promises are made to be broken: Same with women, if you think you can not keep your promise, then just don’t. It’s as easy as 1,2,3. Women do have a superficial happiness and so do men. Both are humans, they both feel the same. Men are just seen to be stronger than women that’s why most women think they are more sensitive than men.
  2. Let them talk: Listen to your woman and let your man talk as well. A man’s ego must be built not crushed.
  3. USAE: Understand, Support, Acknowledge, Encourage. Understand what he thinks is right, Support his plans, Acknowledge his skills and Encourage him to be a better person. Never stop expressing your love with these 4 words. That’s all they needed.
  4. Ask him out: Not because you are the girl/woman in the relationship you will always wait for your man to date you. You can always ask him out for dinner, treat him for a movie or do your reports at a coffee shop together. Once in a while is not bad.
  5. Appreciate him forever: He will court you forever, then appreciate what he does for you and show him that every little thing that he has been doing counts. Big or small show him that you are grateful for having him.
  6. Do not be a nagger: I get it. A woman usually gets mad and tries to be patient as much as she can. But they get mad because her man makes her do it. However, if a man does it and a woman gets mad and annoys him more, then they clash.  REMEMBER, A man’s mistake + the woman’s madness = separation. You can always forgive a person. NOW, if you think you’ve given him chances already and you think it is already too much, then teach him a lesson. That’s the time you teach a person a lesson. But prevention is better than cure. So it’s just give and take. It won’t happen if you know how to take care of your man, and your woman won’t turn into a witch if you know how to treat her right.
  7. Notes: Not because in most cultures, women receive flowers and gifts most of the time mean it is not proper to do the same to your man. Nope. You can always send him gifts, flowers or even leaving a small note telling him how handsome he is every day before leaving for work. Not the notes that tell him to pay the bills all the time. :p
  8. Ask: Give yourself the right to ask your man about his day at work, about his friend, about his workmate, about his boss, or just random things. They need that.
  9. Surprises: I have met many women and only 5% of 100 women surprise their husband or partner. Not because he is a man, he doesn’t deserve surprises. Hey! You are both humans and you both feel the same when it comes to surprises. Maybe, some women think that their partner won’t like it or appreciate it. QUESTION: Have you tried it? Most men are not showy. They won’t show that they like it but they do.
  10. Love him: Follow the 9 ways on how to take care of your man, that explains number 10.

 

You see, we live based on the culture that we know and follow. But what if, just what if, we do the other way around, would it matter?

Not because he is a man he doesn’t deserve to be treated the way they treat their women. We give – we take. And vice versa. They also get hurt, they also cry, they also feel bad, they also experience pain. They are as well, FRAGILE.

So going back to the question, why just MAYBE? Because there are men who are also powerful, and they deserve to be treated like a king, just like how they treat their women as QUEENS. 🙂

 

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How to take care of your woman?

©2016 TheAnonymousWritersNotebook

     They say, “WOMEN are POWERFUL”.. Do you agree? Well at some point, maybe.

     There are MEN who definitely won’t agree to this.. :p There are many reasons why they won’t agree, considering the status of a man in a woman’s life. It depends on the situation.

     Why do WOMEN act like ANGELS and become WITCHES at the end of the day?

     Because SOME MEN do not know how to take care of their WOMEN.

     Regardless of the age, WOMEN should be treated right.

     Let’s talk about some WAYS on how to take care of a woman. Or no, should I say, WAYS to make her remain like an ANGEL..? :p

  1. Promises are made to be broken: Then do not make a promise that you cannot keep. AS SIMPLE AS THAT. Women do have a very superficial happiness. Apparently, they don’t show that and instead give you a tiger look when you promise to come home by 11 and she sees you early in the morning. Like at 5 in the morning.
  2. Listen: Listen to her and never oppose to what she’s telling you NOT UNLESS you really think it is not right. YES, You have the right to state your own opinion, just be ready for your own world war III, or just remain quiet.
  3. VATA: Value, Appreciate, Treasure and Admire her. Never stop expressing your love doing these 4 words.
  4. Date her: Dating a woman doesn’t stop from the day you guys got married. Not because she gave birth to 4 kids and she gained a lot of weight mean you will stop dating her and will try to date someone else. NOPE! NOPE! NOPE! Remember, you loved her because you LOVE her, no reasons in loving. Otherwise, you will have to consider that as an affection. Watching a movie once in a while would do.
  5. Court her forever: When I say court her forever doesn’t mean you will have to give her expensive gifts all the time nor sending her flowers at work. Well for sure you have already spent too much money on that when you were still in your first few months. Why not invite her for coffee, write simple notes, remind her how beautiful she is especially in the morning. We believe that women are more beautiful in the morning (even without makeup).
  6. Be honest: I know that it is difficult to be VERY honest when you are in a relationship or when you are committed, but I think this is one of the rules in life. I’m sorry I can never change that. :p
  7. Random Messages: Good morning beautiful! How’s your day sexy? Have you eaten your dinner love? Believe me, 95% of women would definitely feel a romantic excitement if she sees a message like that. Come on! A single message can already make her feel happy.
  8. You do not have to ask: If you think she’d like that chocolate, just buy it. No need to ask. If you think she’d like the dress, just buy it. No need to ask. If you think she won’t like it. Just buy it! She’ll appreciate it regardless of the item.
  9. Random surprises: Surprise! I came home early from work. How’s that? Surprise I got you a cup your favorite ice cream! Surprise I bought you a new pair of nude shoes. Surprise I am here at the parking lot of your office! Anything you planned to do to make her feel happy that she doesn’t know would definitely surprise her.
  10. LOVE her: Follow the 9 ways on how to take care of your woman, that explains number 10.

You see, when you love a person you do not have to spend too much money to show her that you love her. Just spend TIME with her. And I bet she will be an angel forever.. :p Kidding. She will give you everything that you need and want in life.

     So, going back to the question. They say, “WOMEN are POWERFUL”.. Do you agree?

    WATCH OUT FOR the WAYS ON TO MAKE YOUR MAN HAPPY. Soon!

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The Coffee Table

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     Each person has their own style of completing their day. Some people’s day isn’t complete without seeing their loved ones in the morning. Some are cranky without eating their favorite fruit. Some are a bit irritated without putting on makeup. And others think their day is incomplete without having a cup of coffee.

     Coffee is part of some people’s routine. It keeps their body lively and helps make their day perky. I love coffee. I am a fan of drinking coffee – hot or cold- any time of the day. But you know what makes it special? The bonding that I get to have with the people I am drinking coffee with. The chitchat with your siblings once in a while, the laughter with your best buds every now and then, the tears you get to release when you share something with your mom and the smile you see from your workmates.

Regardless of the type of coffee you have, whether or not your drinking it alone, whichever reason you have in drinking it, a cup of coffee can make your day complete and can give you time to think, bond and laugh a little with the people you’re with!

     So tell me, who is your favorite coffee buddy? 🙂

     Happy morning/afternoon word press peeps!

 

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Thoughts

©2016 TheAnonymousWritersNotebook

A lot of people are asking me, “Why do you choose to remain anonymous in spite of having readers and followers here and abroad?”

I may not be as famous as other writers, I may not be as well-known as other bloggers, I may not be as smart as other authors, I may not have millions of followers, but all of us do have our own reasons why we write…

I can still remember when I was young, I have always been dreaming of seeing my name in a book as an author. Publishing my own book, or putting up my own library where I can share my books and stories to those who are willing to read for free.

And then one day, the internet just went live to the world. I never thought I’d be able to write and share stories with people I do not know. Readers who do have the same experience with the characters that I introduce and can relate to the stories that I write.

Technology has become a part of someone’s life. And this technology has become one of my partners in sharing my ideas in writing. Together with the people that I feature here, these are simple people with big dreams. They are as well like me, they do have big dreams but they are only known inside a small box. I am an instrument of sharing their experiences with my readers to inspire them as well. I also use photos of some people who are very passionate about taking photos but do not use their talent in the business industry. We all have the same GOAL.

So why do I stay anonymous? Because just like my photographers, just like my featured articles, our main goal is to CREATE, SHARE and INSPIRE…

That’s all that matters! And my inspiration? All of the people who believe in me, all of the writers and authors that I get to read here, and all of my readers and followers.

I know that one day, the anonymous writer will also be known for her stories and not because she has a lot of supporters. And I bet she will still remain anonymously in public.

Create, Share and Inspire people. You do not know how you can be of a big help to people who do not have the courage to ask. Just help and inspire. It means a lot to them.

Thank you for becoming a part of this journey. You all mean a lot to me.

Happy Reading!

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Can they solve problems?

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Maybe NOT.. but at least a great start.. Happy afternoon everyone!

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S.INGLE A.WARENESS D.AY

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This has always been one of my favorite songs. For some reason, haha it makes me feel like I am just okay being single… But whenever I hear this song it makes me laugh, getting confused if I really am okay being single or not.. Well, up, up for Joseph Vincent! He’s one of my faves… 

Well from the line “There’s always next year, just wait and see”

INDEED.. Let’s just wait for next year… haha Everything is just alright.. ^^

-S.A.D No valentine for me
And Imma be alright if you could only see
That today’s just a day and if it’s meant to be
There’s always next year, just wait and see

This ain’t a song about love, it’s the actually opposite I’m thinkin’ of
I don’t care about the cards, or candy hearts, oh no no no I’ll tell you right from the start
Oh, reminds of how I don’t have a date, the 14th of February gets in the
way cause for me, It’s Single Awareness Day-

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